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Dear Diary: who am I?

February 19, 2009 1 Comment

Knowing more about yourself can help you relate to other people. And work out what you want.

Dear Diary: Who am I?

Knowing a bit about yourself can help you navigate your relationships.
Start by thinking about you - what are the most important things in your life? At school? At home? At work?
Do you have religious or spiritual beliefs that are important?
Do you have any pet hates?
Then think about what you want and value in a relationship:
Is family important to you? Do you want your sweetie to spend time with your family?
Do you want to share everything with your partner or keep some things to yourself?
Are relationships about challenge or about making your life easier?
Do you want a partner who helps you out or one who lets you work things out for yourself?
How do you feel about public displays of affection? Hugs, kisses, holding hands? What about in front of your family, friends or workmates?
Is commitment is important or do you like to stay free?
Do you hate swearing or love it?
Are you cool with a bit of drama or do you prefer things to stay calm?
Do you want everyone to know about your relationship or do you want to keep it private?
List all the things that are important in a relationship. See if you can rank them.
(Sometimes looking at your own family can give you clues about what’s important to you)
Which ones could you compromise on? Which ones could make you want to end a relationship?
Are there things in your life that you can’t live without, that are more important than your relationship?
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One Response to “Dear Diary: who am I?”

Tasha O'Sullivan May 19, 2011 at 9:31 am

thankyou