QUIZ: is it love or control?
They say they care, and you know they do, but sometimes it feels too much. Are their actions caring…. or controlling? Read more...
Too much too soon?
He buys me flowers and presents, and says he wants to be with me forever. We’ve only been together for a month. It’s amazing that he’s so into me – but something about it makes me feel nervous. Why? Read more...
Is jealousy a sign of love?
We all feel a little jealous at times. When is it ok and when is getting out of hand? Read more...
Am I blinded by love?
Love is blind, so the saying goes. Are you so hooked on the idea of love that you’re ignoring the reality? Read more...
Is it ok to snoop?
Checking their mobile, reading their emails, logging into their Facebook, flicking through their diary… What effect does snooping have on a relationship? Is it curiosity or control? Read more...
Website snooping
Got a boyfriend, girlfriend or ex who’s trying to track what sites you visit? You have a right to keep your private web use… private! Read more...
Pressure to send sexy pics or texts
Pressure to send sexy pics, texts or videos is common in relationships. What if you’re pressured to send pics to your boyfriend or girlfriend? Read more...
Being harassed online?
Is someone using the web to harass you or to spread nasty rumours about you? Read more...
Checking up? Constant calls or texts
Your phone can be your best friend, but when your boyfriend, girlfriend or someone else sends you a million texts or calls constantly to check what you’re up to, it can become a nightmare. Read more...
Dying for you?
Someone tells you, ‘If you leave, I’ll kill myself’? Is this a sign of passionate love – or are they trying to control your choices? Read more...
I’ll be watching you: stalking
Someone who stalks a BF or GF (or an ex) is usually possessive and controlling. Stalking includes following someone around or leaving messages on their phone or online, and deliberately trying to make them feel scared. Read more...
