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QUIZ: is it love or control?

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They say they care, and you know they do, but sometimes it feels too much. Are their actions caring…. or controlling?

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Too much, too soon?

Too much too soon?

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He buys me flowers and presents, and says he wants to be with me forever. We’ve only been together for a month. It’s amazing that he’s so into me – but something about it makes me feel nervous. Why?

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Is jealousy a sign of love?

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We all feel a little jealous at times. When is it ok and when is getting out of hand?

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Am I blinded by love?

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Love is blind, so the saying goes. Are you so hooked on the idea of love that you’re ignoring the reality?

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Is it ok to snoop?

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Checking their mobile, reading their emails, logging into their Facebook, flicking through their diary… What effect does snooping have on a relationship? Is it curiosity or control?

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Website snooping

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Got a boyfriend, girlfriend or ex who’s trying to track what sites you visit? You have a right to keep your private web use… private!

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Pressure to send sexy pics or texts

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Pressure to send sexy pics, texts or videos is common in relationships. What if you’re pressured to send pics to your boyfriend or girlfriend?

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Being harassed online?

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Is someone using the web to harass you or to spread nasty rumours about you?

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Checking up? Constant calls or texts

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Your phone can be your best friend, but when your boyfriend, girlfriend or someone else sends you a million texts or calls constantly to check what you’re up to, it can become a nightmare.

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Dying for you?

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Someone tells you, ‘If you leave, I’ll kill myself’?  Is this a sign of passionate love – or are they trying to control your choices?

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I’ll be watching you: stalking

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Someone who stalks a BF or GF (or an ex) is usually possessive and controlling. Stalking includes following someone around or leaving messages on their phone or online, and deliberately trying to make them feel scared.

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