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QUIZ: Should I sleep with them?

July 5, 2009 Comments Off

So you’ve met someone and you really like them. How do you decide whether to sleep with them?

A couple looking into the camera

Do they care about my feelings and listen to me?

Yes
Mostly
I don't know, I've just met them
Not very much

Can I tell them makes me feel good and what I don’t like?

Yes
No
I don't know

Are there any warning signs that they don’t treat me with respect?

Yes, they're often possessive or aggressive towards me.
Sometimes they get possessive or jealous.
No

Do they guilt-trip or pressure me into sex?

Yes
Sometimes
No

Are you a virgin?

Yes
No

How long have you known them?

We just met
A few weeks
A few months
A few years

If we're drunk, we make out and then they pressure me for sex.

Yes
Sometimes
No

Do you or your partner have any strong religious, cultural, ethical or family beliefs about sex?

Yes, we've talked through them.
Yes, but we haven't talked about them.
Yes, we've talked and we can't agree.
No.

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