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QUIZ: good, bad or ugly?

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Rate your relationship with this quiz. Are you the perfect match or are there signs of trouble?

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The good, the bad and the ugly

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Get the lowdown on the good, the bad and the ugly sides of relationships.

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Fights

What if we fight a lot?

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Fights are a normal part of any relationship. At some point you’re going to disagree on something! The question is: How do you fight?

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Maybe it’s not that bad?

Maybe it’s not that bad?

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It’s hard to accept that someone isn’t treating you right. You might think, “It’s not that bad,” ‘cos sometimes they’re nice and fun to be around.

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How does your relationship make you feel?

How do I feel?

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One of the first signs that something isn’t right is how you feel. If you’re being treated badly, you feel anxious and confused a lot of the time.

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What is abuse?

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When things get ugly, it’s called “abuse” – when someone does things to control, bully, or hurt someone else. It’s not just physical violence – in fact, it might not be physical at all.

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It’s not ok – what now?

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It’s not easy to admit that things aren’t turning out like you planned. Or wanted. But it’s better to get real than keep living in a bad dream.

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Why do they treat me like this?

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Is it ‘cos they’re stressed? Because they were drinking or using drugs? Or because they had a bad childhood?

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Should I speak up?

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Speaking up about things you don’t like lets the other person know that you expect respect.

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Can I get them to change?

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“Mostly we get along ok, but when he gets angry he says nasty things about me and pushes me around. I’ve told him I hate him when he acts like that. He apologises, but he keeps on doing it. How can I get him to change?”

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Should I leave them?

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Lots of people out there think, “Why don’t you just leave?” What they don’t realise is  – it’s hard to leave any relationship, and it’s extra hard if there’s been abuse.

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Dear Diary: dealing with feelings

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Something happen that made you angry, jealous or just plain miserable? Make sense of what’s going on.

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Dear Diary: Safety Plan

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If your relationship gets scary sometimes, a Safety Plan has questions and answers on how to stay safe.

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Why is sex a big deal?

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Sex is everywhere: in magazines, online, movies and songs.  It might seem like everyone’s doing it and it’s no big deal… so is it? Here’s why we think deciding to have sex IS a big deal – both physically and emotionally.

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What’s sex like? & other FAQs

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What is sex, and what’s it really like? Is everyone doing it? What’s the legal age you can have sex? Here’s some answers to common questions.

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Dear Diary: weighing it up

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You’re in a relationship and things don’t seem good. Is it worth staying? Fill this out to help you decide.

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